It sounds like everyone has pretty lovely plans for the holiday! SoCalSolar, that's great that your brother and nephew are home safe.
Let's see...my Thanksgiving this year involves my mom's family and my dad's family getting together for dinner. My step mom will probably do most of the cooking, so I'm not sure how much of it will be organic. But my dad is really big into shopping at the farmer's market so I'm sure he got a lot of stuff in preparation (so at least portions of the meal will be local). We also always use real plates. Actually, Thanksgiving is my step mom's favorite holiday so she gets pretty into the fancy place settings. Decorations usually don't extend past some table runners, ribbon, candles, and persimmons from our tree outside.
In terms of carbon footprint, this year won't be too bad, because all of my immediate family is in the San Francisco Bay Area. When I was in school in Rhode Island, I must admit, I did fly home...I did get offsets for that travel though. But I agree with Deej...sometimes you have to balance your eco-consciousness with the need to be with your loved ones.
We're actually all getting together for dinner at my mom's tonight too. The main Thanksgiving tradition is to fill out our little Christmas wish-lists.
And as far as what I'm thankful for...I'm thankful for my family (of course), lots of good friends (some new, some old), and tons of amazing Huddlers. :-) Oh, and of course, I'm thankful for hand turkeys.